Monday, October 22

It will be here one day....


When I sit alone in my room, in lrt or anywhere....I always think that as a human being I have tons of flaws. Some is acceptable but some just a bit too much. I admit we human being have a lot of flaws that maybe with determination we could overcome it make something useful out of it. Nowadays, the favourite topic always about me and my soul mate. Oh well, I understand their concern and I do respect that so that's why everytime the same topic comes out I will just participate and listen with open heart. Maybe it is a big deal for some that I have not find someone yet but for me, believe me...I think it's just not the time yet.

The talk I have earlier with one of my friends makes me  realize it is not because of how big I am or even how I look like it's just not the time yet. When god says, today is the day then on that day I'm gonna meet someone that I will spend my whole life with. (even thinking of that scares me) I never think I would stay with the one and only person for the rest of my life but well, who knows?

For me, you need to be ready mentally, physically and importantly financially to get married. It is not a joke or temporary stops. Marriage is forever. You know you are ready when you realize that you can't live without that person and you decide you want to spend the rest of your life with him. No doubt, no hesitation, it all feel just right. He is right, everything about him is right and make perfect sense. It is when you think he is perfect despite his imperfection. Accepting him the way he is despite all his flaws vice versa. When that comes, that is when I know I am ready.

I know age is catching up and I know that I might end up alone but then I always think I am not really alone when I have my siblings, my nephew, my niece...well my family and also my friends with me. I might grow old alone and I might not but lets keep praying that time that all been waiting for will eventually come. If it don't, then it don't. If it does, I know I have everyone blessing.

Maybe love will come knocking when we stop looking. Who knows? :)

Sunday, October 21

Women are crazy and men are stupid?


I am on my bed...I can't sleep tho I suppose to finish up on my assigment tonight but typical me I will just change my plan and decided being lazy after all is rewarding. Shit, means I can't enjoy my Sunday and instead being miserable in my room completing my assignment. Oh, well it has been 3 months that I have no time, idea and willpower to write any single things on this poor blog of mine. I kept thinking, I need to write down my thought especially when I am alone in the ladies but then when I came out I decided to do something else. Talking about focus which I lack of one here!

After what it seems like a lot of month, I finally well not even finally I might complete reading this book. Women are crazy, men are stupid. It is mostly about he says, she says in one situation or event. It written by Howard J. Morris and Jenny Lee who is a comedic writer and in actual life are a pair. They wrote this book based on what happen and how they handle situation based on their personal point of view. I might forget what I read cos it has been ages and  the book is my friend when I am having me time in the toilet but what I realize we, women all have Jenny within us and yes, I admit we do sometimes act crazy. 

Men however handle situation differently, well sometimes I could say in most idiotic way or rather straight minded kind of thinking. They said what they want to say and do what they want to do while women are busy thinking what will the other half will think if we say wrong  things or even act in disapproving manner. I do agree, tho sometimes I don't agree with Jenny attitude or somehow actions but I also strongly agree men should care more and have more empathy instead of being a wood or a rock. Maybe show some emotion. 

I have past experience and I do admit I acted crazy in my relationship mostly to get attention of my ex and yes, he do sometimes well soooometimes act clever but most of the times he was lack of emotions and don't even show that he care. Been thinking of that, I think that's why we weren't together anymore. Hicks! 

Reminder, guys! Woman sometimes have some loose wire and acted crazy. This is because we care too much and we expect you to do the same too. It is not wrong to show a bit of emotion or to lower down your ego. It just shows that you care as much as we do. Well even not as much as us, at least you do care. Pay attention to your girls, you won't regret.

I do think this books is a good read for both men and women to understand relationship and also to look at a relationship from both point of view. I am not seeing anyone right now, but I read it just to understand how men do think. It is from real life experience so you know some of the situation in this book you could relate to. I love it that they tell their own set of stories in comical, hilarious and entertaining kind of way compare to other relationship book that mostly are boring and dull. Once you start reading it, you will want to finish it even it took long time like me. 

And yes, call my alter ego Jenny cause I do think I have Jenny within me. Well, aren't we are, ladies? Read it and you know you agree with me.